Anouba Meerol: Eche na DM college tammingei matamda nupa singna eche si mit urakaroi khangbadi chenkhi haibadugi maramdu thirubada angang yokpada wagani haibagi oiramme haibaduda yaoriba nupi-nupa gi marakta leinariba mari asigi wakhallonsigi matangda khara haibiyu.
Moirangthem Sunita: Male dominated society ni eikhoi sida di, nupi amatta pung 6 gi matungda mapan thokpa yade. Natra? Aduma leire, adagi amuk udabagi inferiority complex ama amuk leidoine. Haidi… even ei houjik faoba da complex se khara di leiri haiba. Sana sira chatpa matamda eingondagi sana asi thatkhi taragadi kamaina tanarudoino haibagi pot ama lei. Adu keigino hairagadi… sigi pot se free oira kandane eikhoina nupaga nupiga manaba khunnai ama oirakkadoise, natra?. Adu nattri kheidi eikhoigi status se, hoi hannaga yengnarura gadi fare ko, adu nattrikheidi eikhoi status se fare haina louba yade. Adagi mapa mamagi sampattida nupigi hak pide, pibrane? Machin manao manga pok-ae, nupi ama khakta yaowe, nupi dusu chap mannana phangadabado phangde.
Eigumba nupi mayam ama leiramgani. Widow su nattaba nupa nadi hundok piramlaba, ado governmentnadi eikhoigi facility amatta pideba. Echasi kamaina yoktoino, adagi nupana nupi ama thibadei chatkhrani, adagi nupi ahando leihourani, nupi ahando leihoura kanda macha mayam ama thambirammani, peisa su pibiramlaroi, machasingdugidi hotnadoineba mana, ado sigumba eikhoigumba nupisingi di semdeba. Ado eina khwai saoningba amana… ei echa anise eingonda hundok lamme, ei husband do hanna yenglaktre, certificate ta eigi ming yaodaba, echagi certificate ta… ei yamna saoningi. Mai mamingdo ei ehanningde, haidi ei son of adu-adu haibado ehanningdeba, son of eigi maming oina hapning-e. Sigi provision sisu semhanning-e. Mama na yoklagadi mama gi maming happa yaba or mapa maming oiro mama maming oiro happasu. Mana siki ama faoba puthok traba do ei mai mamingdo ehanningde. Ado eda yadrabanina, ekhoigi male-dominated society haigadra government ki provision leitabana haigadra hannadagi customary gi leiba na haigadra sigi potse eidi yamna correct toujaning-e. Hoi, animak happana happaniko.
Nupa amasung nupigagi relation sibo angang yokpa khaktana loirabra ba? Masu sacrifice tourakpa yaina. Emung manung gi thabak engkhang ama-ama masu loina tourakpa yaina. Adu nupa nupi chap mannaba potneba. Adugi pottudane ngasi eikhoina fangfam thokpa status fangdri haise. Nupa su kon fengba yai, nupasu wai teiba yai, chak thongba yai, nongnganba dei hougatlaga walking chatluraga fammaga khabar paraga nupina cha pusallak ani adagi nupina chak esing mayam thonglaga adagi macha masu mayam du loisallaga thabak su amuk karaga hallak aga amuk su takkhai rine ba.
Eigi challenge amakhak lei, houjik ki, particular miduna hairamba, midugi mamang da eigi echase amuktang di semma kanda, mai mamangda amuktangdi utke. Ma masana budi khangjaramkhiroi ko houjik adoisu ei utke di khalle (she laughs). Eiga class 9 dei khangnarakpaduna Master loiba faoba khangna rine aduga ei mit uraroi haira kanda, eingonda yamna shocking oiba feel touwe eingonda yamna khangba wajaba keinom khak oikhiba. Adui matamduna eina khalle, matam amadako ei echa ani sigi marakta afaba amadi yourak kaniko nang namang da si amatangdi eisu sine utke haina. Houjik kandi nupa khara ama thoklakle yamdi yamde percentage khara, Chingmeirong sidasu lei haiye eiga di thengna dri ko, nupise chatpa ngamdaba adagi nupa sina fajana loubiraga adum leiba. Fammaga sitlaga chatpa adumba oiba nupise aduga fajana leiminnaba yaowe. Adagi Rameshori ana nupi ama masu makhong nammase caliper happe chatpa yadabei. Ado makhong namma do happa ga magi husbandna fajana assist toubiraga yamna nungshina lei. Adu countable ne, haidi loinanak natte haiba khara khakni haiba. Aduga blind nupisingina, mainly thabak touba nupisinggina mayum panba loina khang ae. Ado nupa singna second marriage kumba, nupa duna hundokpiramlaga atoppa nupi ama louraga leiba mayam su leiri. Ado sine eikhoina haise, masasu eikhoina inferior oire ana khallak nabagi machak adum oirakpa. Ado eidi houjik khandre, inferior oire-ana su sukkhan khandre. Eidi lakpa khei thengnarage sine. Eshor na dandi pige ana pirabada hattokpidou mangaire, nattro? Adudi keim kide (she laughs).
Anouba Meerol: Eche si matam amada inferiority complex yamna chaona leirammaga hujik sina loina thengranani haina khallak ese echesi financially independent oirakpa sinara?
Moirangthem Sunita: Adu khakta natte, mapaan thoklure chatlure delhi da training tourure chahi ahum mari Shilong chatli. Mayam na tounariba khotnariba, moi adadi yamna independent oina leibase, Delhi daga di mamit udaba nupi gase koichat chatli, lairik tamjari, adagi mayumna ga support toubiraktrabasu moi lak aga adum loi touba. Moi mayam do ubadagi wakhalse khara chaothorakpa, moina ngamma keidoubagi eina ngammoi dourino kaina. Sports tagasu ei 2002 dagi sports chatle, 2010 fouba. Eigi Gold ahum ahum di adum fangbane, adagi ahanba gi da silver ama gold ani fang-a, 2004 da ahum, 2006 ta ahum, 2008 ta ahum, 2010 da ahum fang-a. Ado eikhoisiga mapanga khitang di adum khetnei dana status se. Adu mayamdo ura kanda thouna ama lakpa haitare. Mayamnasu eina toujaruba singdu appreciate toubirakpa aduni. Houjik ti eina khallise nupasing nupisingda ga laknaba tourise nupisingna ga yam kina luktharaga kithup kirup touraga, tuminna leiridana, adu onjallaga fujallammo haine eidi (she laughs). Biological difference pudi leiko, leijaragasu nupana touba ngamdaba thabak mayam nupina touba ngamba mayam leiri, nupina ngamdaba nupa na ngamba mayam leirisini. Adu keisu noina solle hainingai leite haiba. Ado manungda hanjal hanjallaga leiba atoppa angang mayam ama su leiri si mayam asi chingthok aga thouna happiba ama darka oi. Sisina amuk karaidagi thouna happak kadage haiba da nupi thouna faba khara singsina motivate toubiba ama darkar oi. Aduga nupina nupisu yam namtheiye hougatlak ke touba matamda. Nupise mou oire hairadi nupi gi thabak se chak thongba macha sennaba da loina loiraboi khalle haiba. Adagi mai profession ama toujaramni lawyer oiro profession amadi youjarammani. Mostly Lawyer gumba singdi marriage toukhradi amuk changdre. Sigumba nupisinggi emungduda leiriba manempok adagi mache machal singsina support toubiba ama darka lei. Eikhoi nupida nupi amana support touba darka oi. Eikhoi masen support tounara kanda eikhoigi status si wangkhat lak ka doine. Eigi emannabi ama USA da lei, mana eingonda hairise Sunita, nang angang leirik tambada private ki nattaba government college kumba higher secondary kumbada di ei ming chanbige hai. Manaa peisa tharak-e eina adum maming chanbi. Houjik master tammi hairiba angang se lupa 8000 puthok aga admission tounaba peisa leitadana tok ka dourine ada eina houjik emannabi sina tharak a kanda magi lairik leiba gi, form fill up keika loina tourine. Aduga ngamdaba singdi eina leiba matam thok aga di touwe, at least minimum education graduation faoba di tamnaba hotnari. Eigisu plan amadi leijariba ko, houjikti angang khei gi loidriba nina eina moida pulap onjanba do ngamdaba. Hujik nupisingse disabled oirasu thabak touragadi married life se adum, moina finance purakkadourabanina thabak toudaba nupanasu adum loubi haiba. Aduga thabaksu toudaba mamitsu udradi kanam loubide.
Ruth Chawngthu